Friday, June 23, 2017

Sober




Bismillahirrahmanirrahim, Allah al-Qaabid, al-Baasit, al-Khaafid … 
in the name of Allah the Restricting One, the Extender, the Reducer. 




Ramadhan Kareem 1438 Hijri to my dearest blog visitors and blissful silent readers that never give up to hop in here, even though there’s no latest post updated at all. My bad hehe. May Allah showers His baraqah through this holy month of Ramadhan. Allahumma Amiiin!



Be in the holy month that keep all Muslims awaits patiently, say thanks to Allah … Alhamdulillah thummAlhamdulillah. I guess even the not-yet Muslims does feels the calm atmosphere of this month. Allahu





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Silent … Observe … Brave … Empathy … Rational = SOBER 


 

SOBER as in other words called clear-headed and restrained. Hey, I’m not going to be an English teacher today; nor I’m capable in doing so, daa~ I’ve been missing the tempo in jotting down one of my ‘thingy’. Concluding the phrases under a form of abbreviation.




Silent. 




A state of keeping the mouth shut literally and keep shutting down to any reaction physically. For all I know, silent is the best treatment when it comes in between situation that hesitates the hearts to take part. Silent always be a winner, either you like it or not.



Say things tend to be misinterpreted by many. Somehow, here comes the idol which done nothing but heals almost everything. Well, the prayer also frequently take place in silent. That’s the prove of a beautiful quotation; “Silence is golden.”



Observe. 


See beneath its beautiful or falsehood. Yes, I illuminate ‘observe’ as simple as that. Use your eyes and heart inside to observe. Pack it up with your rational brain, then you’ll be able to understand what lies beneath everything. Everything you see not exactly shows what its really seems.



What an advantage if someone has this kind of ability in them. Yes, it’s definitely an ability. People used to talk as in giving response by not giving themselves a little pause to put the mind in lucid state. If the reaction is too fast, the shameful appears as fast. Allahu. It’s always us that expose the deficiencies in ourselves. Restrain yourself and observe heartily.


Brave. 




Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: Messenger of Allah said, “The strong man is not one who is good at wrestling, but the strong man is one who controls himself in a fit of rage.” 
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].



Why am I stating brave and the act of controlling anger? Brave used to be pair up with the ability to be angry and pump up in loud circumstances. That’s not parallel in Islam which teaches peace and patient.





Brave to speak your principles and mind up. Brave to defend what you should defend. Brave to show how you see the world in your legit perspective even its rare and distinct! In the last phase of the world, as Muslims we need to straight up and behold to what Islam teach us. Brave to the practice and always remember Islam began as something strange and will revert to being strange as it began. 



Empathy. 




Oxford dictionary define empathy as 'the ability to understand and share the feelings of another'. Correct! It’s a bless to be able to understand to the extend feels what other feel at the same time. Always put yourself in others shoe to comprehend what you never experienced.



Nowadays, human always compete to be the first, the earliest and the best among all. Sigh. Keeping their mind tangling and questioning, “If I can do it, why can’t you?” MasyaAllah, don’t you realize that your capability is by the will of Allah too. You as in yourself can’t never claim it’s yours anyway. 




What a shame. Make your heart at ease by clearing up the deepest understanding of others. It’s never a waste, trust me!



Rational. 




I guess this words appear once up in the above paragraph. Of course, you need to be rational and sane. Hehe. Insane people not count in any discussion; Islam does not burden them not even with a single sin. Once their sanity vanishes, the responsibility does too. How beautiful Islam’s teaching right? Alhamdulillah. Say thanks to Allah.



This equation ends with rational to keep the stand of how important to manage yourself in rational state. Rational work in a team with good effort and in sha Allah good outcome. Our beloved Prophet Muhammad p.b.u.h. teaches us this amazing manner to convey in various situation. Not even once, he answers nor response to sahabah’s question in unreasonable circumstance. Sollu ‘alan Nabiy … 




Being SOBER helps to improve ourselves as a good Muslim. In specific; good Malay Modern Muslimah! Yeay. May Allah swt ease and light up our journey. It’s still a long journey ahead. May Allah swt keep His sight upon us. Allahumma Aamiiin.




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We’ve come to the end of exquisite calming Ramadhan season, hoping to see this blissful month again next year! May our deeds in this Ramadhan accept by Allah in a stunning package as a token to enter His exclusive Jannah. May our ocean of sins have forgiven and erased by Allah Al-Afuw. May our prayers and wishes grant by Allah Ar-Razzaq Aamiiin.



Happy Eid Mubarak 1438H ^_^ Kullu ‘aam wa antum bikhayr.




Jazakumullahu khayran kathira for the endless support and bouquet of du’aa, because I can feel it my dearest. Thanks again, only Allah can repay the kindness in you! 

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